Who private commercial lenders are
The category covers very different capital sources. Debt funds raise institutional capital and make larger transitional loans, often with future funding. Private credit platforms lend across bridge, construction, and mezzanine positions. Family offices lend their own capital and can be flexible on unusual collateral or timing. Hard money lenders focus on speed and asset value, usually on smaller loans with shorter terms.
- Debt funds: transitional and value-add loans with structured future funding
- Private credit firms: bridge, construction, mezzanine, and preferred equity
- Family offices: relationship-driven and decided deal by deal
- Hard money lenders: asset-based, fast, and short term
- Specialty lenders: focused on a single asset type or situation
How private lenders differ from banks
Banks lend deposits under regulatory capital rules, so they emphasize stabilized cash flow, recourse, and a deposit relationship. Private lenders lend investor capital and price risk directly. They will finance properties with vacancy, unfinished business plans, borrower credit issues, or tight closing deadlines that a bank credit committee would decline.
Private lenders also decide with fewer approval layers, and many underwrite mainly to collateral value and the exit. The trade-off is cost: higher rates, origination points, and fees, plus short terms that require a planned refinance or sale. The bridge loan vs bank loan comparison walks through that decision.
When private capital is the right call
Private debt makes sense when speed, certainty, or flexibility creates more value than the added cost. Examples include closing an acquisition on a short contract, buying out a partner, refinancing ahead of a maturity default, carrying a property through a repositioning, or financing a borrower whose recent credit event rules out a bank. Foreign-national borrowers with US assets and US bank accounts can also find a fit on business-purpose commercial loans.
Private pricing rarely makes sense on a stabilized property that qualifies for bank, life company, or agency debt. Paying for flexibility on an asset that could carry permanent financing only reduces returns.
The true cost of private capital
Compare private loan offers on total cost over the realistic hold period, including origination points, lender legal and underwriting fees, exit fees, extension fees, and any minimum interest period. A lower-rate loan with a large exit fee can cost more than a higher-rate loan with no exit fee if the property refinances early.
Also check how interest accrues on future funding, whether an interest reserve is required and funded from proceeds, and whether default interest and late charges are reasonable. Run the payments through the commercial mortgage calculator and add the fees to see the effective cost.
- Origination points at closing
- Exit or release fees at payoff
- Extension fees and the tests to qualify for extensions
- Minimum interest or prepayment lockout periods
- Third-party report, legal, and servicing costs
Protecting the exit
Private loans are designed to be repaid quickly, so the exit deserves as much attention as the closing. Match the term to the business plan with room for delays, confirm that extension conditions are achievable, and make sure the loan can be prepaid without penalty when the refinance is ready. Know in advance what the takeout lender will need: occupancy, trailing income, completed work, or improved credit.
Default and maturity terms matter more with private lenders, because some are prepared to own the asset. Read cure periods, maturity default provisions, and cross-default language closely before signing.
How Capital Partners matches private lenders
Private lending is fragmented, and lenders that look alike on paper often have very different appetites for asset type, location, loan size, and borrower profile at any given time. Capital Partners matches every request against a private database of lender criteria tracked by property type, structure, loan size, geography, and current appetite. Submit your deal for a principal's review, or read more about private and hard money loans.
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Common questions
What is a private commercial lender?
A private commercial lender is a non-bank source of commercial real estate debt, such as a debt fund, family office, private credit firm, or hard money lender. These lenders use investor or proprietary capital and are not bound by bank underwriting rules. They typically lend on shorter terms at higher cost in exchange for speed and flexibility.
Are private commercial lenders the same as hard money lenders?
Hard money lenders are a subset of private lenders. The broader category also includes debt funds, private credit platforms, and family offices, which may offer larger loans, future funding, and more structured terms.
What fees come with a private commercial real estate loan?
Expect origination points and legal and underwriting costs, and in many cases exit fees, extension fees, or minimum interest. Compare offers on total cost over your expected hold instead of on rate alone.
Can a borrower with a past credit issue get a private commercial loan?
Often, yes. Private lenders focus mainly on collateral value, equity in the deal, and the exit, so a past credit event may be acceptable with a clear explanation. These loans are for business-purpose commercial real estate only.
How does Capital Partners choose a private lender for my deal?
Capital Partners matches each request against a private database of lender criteria tracked by property type, structure, loan size, geography, and current appetite. A principal reviews the deal and approaches the lenders most likely to quote it on workable terms.
Who can find me a private lender for a commercial property the bank turned down?
Capital Partners arranges private commercial loans from $1M to $100M and matches each request against its private database of lender criteria. A principal first asks why the bank declined, because the reason narrows which private lenders will quote the deal.
Should I go direct to a private lender or use a broker?
Going direct gets you 1 lender's terms. Fees, extension terms, and default provisions on private loans vary widely between lenders, and a broker puts several sets of terms in front of you. Capital Partners compares those terms with you before you sign a term sheet.

